Three years ago, I arrived in Bremen for the first time. The sun was shining, a beautiful flower market filled the streets, and I instantly fell in love with the city. During my Erasmus+ exchange, we had time to explore. On our last day, while clearly lost and trying to find something, a kind lady approached my team leader and me to offer help. I was stunned not only because I understood her speaking German, but also because a stranger showed such genuine kindness. That simple act stayed with me and deepened my appreciation for Bremen.
Even though I fell in love with the city, I never imagined I’d one day call it home. But life leads us in unexpected ways. After three years, I returned and once again, the sun welcomed me. I smiled, remembering how people often describe Bremen as a rainy, gray place. And indeed, after a few months, the sun slowly disappeared, giving way to short, gloomy days and long, cold nights.
But I didn’t come here because of the weather. If sunshine was what I was chasing, northern Germany wouldn’t have been my first choice. I came because I didn’t want to settle for a life, a job, or a version of myself that didn’t feel right. I came to explore not just a new place, but the hidden corners of my own mind and heart.
Living in Bremen gave me countless moments I will always treasure. I witnessed sunsets that painted the sky in colours I didn’t know existed. I found peace in long walks through quiet parks. I learned to sit with my thoughts, to be patient, to be still. This journey became my teacher, showing me how to handle the unexpected, how to find creative solutions, and how to truly listen to others, even when we don’t agree. I learned the power of routine, the value of community, and the strength in embracing discomfort.
Of course, not everything was easy. The winters felt long and dark both literally and emotionally. Learning the language tested my patience. There were moments of joy, and moments of deep frustration. But I’ve realized something important: sometimes, it doesn’t matter how long the darkness lasts. The sun will rise again. And when it does, everything you’ve endured will feel worth it.
That’s the lesson hidden in the gray skies and silent mornings. Just like the seasons change, so do we. Growth takes time. And even when we can’t see the light, it’s still coming. Slowly, surely, inevitably.
Not everyone chooses this path. But for those who do—for the dreamers, the seekers, the ones unafraid to step into the unknown, there is beauty in the journey. This story is for those who embrace change, open their hearts to new cultures, and find strength in the storm. It’s for the brave. The ones who understand that sometimes the darkest winters lead to the brightest dawns.
Sandra Dimkovska
Long-term ESC volunteer hosted by NaturKultur e.V.
